BACK TO BASICS

 BACK TO BASICS

Does anyone take the time out to be spontaneous with their love? Has the symbol for love truly become a heart or kissing faced texted message? Where did the mystery and excitement go? What happened to feeling that high when receiving a forget me not from someone who is courting you? Come to think about it, does anyone know what courtship is anymore? I'll tell you one thing it has nothing to do with "How many drinks does it take you to leave with me" and it's even further from "making that ass clap".

What happened to the element of surprise?  That romantic date that makes your heart stop. I know times are hard but how much does a romantic walk through the park really cost? Like zero dollars right? I've heard people say "well as long as the bills are paid I'm good.'' BUMP THAT!!!! Making your heart drop is something that should be done in addition to taking care of household responsibilities.

Romance seems to have died with the old school. Back when chivalry was a requirement. They would meet your family before the date. They knew to come correct because, the family members would be the judge and you'd actually listen to them. Oh and by the way there was no honking the horn or text messaging when he was outside. He would come to the door and actually ring the bell. Walk you to the car, open the door, wait until you got in and then he'd close the door behind you. Does anyone know what I'm talking about?

Before men would take you on dates with a genuine interest in getting to know you. They wanted to know if you were the type of person who was suitable to bare their children and run the households. Yes they wanted sex then too, but back then it was a mental thing. They needed to evaluate your sanity to assure that shame wouldn't be brought to the family. Now no one seems to care. Men do you feel me on this?

Stop selling yourself short! These things weren't always done only once in a blue. courtship and chivalry were requirements. I was talking to a someone about my previous blog and she stated that she wished her boyfriend would open doors and do the things I discussed about chivalry and romance. Her boyfriend just laughed and said "She got arms she can open her own door".  She wasn't smiling and neither was I.

MEN & WOMEN lets get back to basics. State what your requirements are in the beginning. It's difficult because we are in a time of desperation. people will sell there souls for someone to call their own, but don't be that person. Women there are still good men out there who will be more than happy to treat you like the prize that you are. Men there are still good women out there who are willing to cook, clean take care of the children all while staying fit, being fly and loyal.

I am a queen and I've worked hard for my thrown. If you don't come correct don't come at all!!

NO MATTER WHAT SOCIETY SAYS YOU ARE STILL THE PRIZE!

Sincerely; Roxanne Danielle (The Red Rose Romantic)